

You sit across from a stranger. You may not say a word — you open the envelopes, and watch. By the end, you've met yourself.

Moments from the room







The look
Two people, face to face. No names, no roles, no phones — only the silence where noticing begins.
A hundred questions
An envelope opens. From the ordinary to what we never ask. After 36, Arthur Aron found, strangers fall in love. We give a hundred.
Who you are now
One question remains — the same that met you at the door. Seventy minutes later you answer it differently.
The format
No actors, no script. Two rows of strangers sit face to face. Each fills an anonymous questionnaire about the person across — from first impression alone. At the end, everyone leaves with a sealed envelope of what others saw in them.
A room, chairs, envelopes — it can happen anywhere: theatres, galleries, hotels, wine bars, museums, festivals. It works in any language.


“I thought I came to watch. It turned out I was the one being seen.”
“We said nothing for five minutes. More honest than any first date.”
“For the first time in a year, someone really looked at me.”
Why this might be for you
You're rarely seen
For seventy minutes, someone looks at you with full attention.
You leave with proof
A sealed envelope of how a stranger truly saw you — yours to keep.
It's not what you fear
Not therapy, not a date, not networking. Just being truly met.

Why this matters to me
“For me it's all about warmth. Two strangers sit down as no one to each other — and get up having been truly seen. In a world of screens, that tenderness is the rarest thing there is. That's the whole point.”

Alexander Weinstein
Producer & founder
Created by
Magic Garden
“Who are you?” was created by Magic Garden — a Swiss-German theatrical laboratory working between performance and social research: perception, memory, projection, and imagination as tools of human connection.
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Tina Müller
Idea & concept

Corinne Maier
Idea & concept
The team

Alexander Weinstein
Producer

Nils Konstantinovs
Operations

Elena Nicolaou
Finance & legal

Alexandros Petrakis
New cities

Nikos Stavros
Platform

Emily Carter
Words
Sit down and find out.
Bring “Who are you?” to your city, or take a seat at the next encounter. Each pair is unique.
Apply to become a Host →Selective — one Official Host per city. Applications for the first cohort close 27 September 2026.